Introduction
In today's message, we explored the importance of glorifying God in every aspect of our lives, including our sexual conduct. We delved into the often-avoided topic of sexual immorality, understanding its implications and how it affects our relationship with God and others.
Addressing the Elephant in the Room: Sexual Immorality
Why Talk About Sex in Church?
Sex is a topic that many prefer to avoid, yet it is crucial to discuss it within the church because God created it and has specific guidelines for its use. The sermon referenced 1 Thessalonians 4, where Paul dedicates several verses to sexual immorality, emphasizing its importance. Paul was a list guy, often giving us lists of things to do that would lead to pleasing God, or things to avoid. Sexual Immorality was always on that list, often near the very beginning. It’s clearly something important we need to understand.
The Cultural Context of Sexual Immorality
Paul's letters often include lists of behaviors that please or displease God. Interestingly, in 1 Thessalonians, he focuses solely on sexual immorality. This focus is likely due to the prevalent sexual practices in Roman and Greco cities, which were far from God's design. The sermon highlighted that our modern culture shares many similarities with these ancient societies, making Paul's message highly relevant for us.
Understanding Moral Sexuality- What is Moral Sexuality?
If we are to avoid sexual immorality, a great starting point is to understand what God considers moral sexuality. We turned to Genesis 2, where God created man and woman to be united as one flesh. This oneness is a deep, intimate connection meant to last a lifetime. Jesus and Paul also emphasized this unity, underscoring that sex is more than a physical act; it is a spiritual and emotional bond. so there's a bigger picture here behind this understanding that we have of sex beyond just a physical encounter where two individuals get some pleasure. When God created us, it was meant for something much deeper than just a moment. There's a oneness, a fullness that happens, a connection, an intimacy that is meant to be a connection that lasts longer than just a moment. And what God has done is he has built things to last upon this relationship. What God first did was he built a oneness between a man and his wife that would then grow into the fullness of children, which would then grow into a family. And upon that foundation, upon the family, he would build things like communities. He would build things like the community of the church. And so there's a reason when Jesus says, what God has fused together, what God has joined together, let no one separate. Because he has built so much to be on this foundation.
The Impact of Sexual Immorality
Sexual immorality disrupts this God-designed unity, leading to broken relationships and communities. The bible stresses that any sexual activity outside the confines of marriage between a man and a woman is considered immoral. This includes adultery, pornography, and other forms of sexual sin.
How Does Sexual Sin Affect Others?
Sexual sin is unique because it often involves and harms others. Whether it's through adultery, pornography, or other forms of sexual immorality, these actions pull others away from God and exploit their vulnerabilities.
The Enemy's Tactics: Lies and Accusations
The enemy uses sexual sin to lie to us and then accuse us, leading to guilt and shame. However we are reminded that Jesus has already defeated sin on the cross. We are called to live in freedom, not in shame. 1st John 1:9 says that if we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Life Application
How Can We Live a Holy Life?
Living a holy life involves aligning our actions with God's will, especially in our sexual conduct. Sanctification is the process of becoming more like Christ, its the method by which God cleanses us, and it requires us to avoid sexual immorality and seek accountability.
Questions for Reflection
1. Who are you glorifying in your daily life?
2. Are there areas in your life where you seek approval from others instead of God?
3. How can you align your sexual conduct with God's design for moral sexuality?
4. Are you willing to seek accountability and support to overcome sexual sin?
A Challenge for the Week
This week, challenge yourself to examine your motives and actions. Are you glorifying God in all areas of your life, including your sexual conduct? Seek accountability and support if you struggle with sexual sin. Remember, you are loved, and God's grace is sufficient to help you overcome any sin. Your mess is welcome here, and we are here to talk if that’s what you need!