Pleasing God: A Common Struggle
Many of us strive to please the important people in our lives—our spouses, children, parents; even our bosses. This effort can be exhausting because it relies on our own strength. Similarly, we often try to please God through our own efforts, which can be equally tiring. Have you experienced this tension in your own life? The question arises: How do we please an all-powerful God? How do we find rest for our souls from striving in our own efforts?
Biblical Guidance on Pleasing God
Paul addresses this question in 1 Thessalonians 4:1-12. He instructs the Thessalonians on how to live in a way that pleases God. The key is to love God and love one another, as Jesus taught in Matthew 22:37-40. Jesus simplifies the concept of love by saying, "If you love me, keep my commands" (John 14:15). This love is not a burdensome demand but a guiding principle that leads us to live in a way that pleases God.
Love One Another: A Basic Tenet of Faith
Paul commends the Thessalonians for their love for one another and urges them to do so more and more. Loving one another is fundamental to the Christian faith. This love should extend beyond our immediate community to those in our region and even to the ends of the earth, as Jesus commanded in the Great Commission (Matthew 28:19-20).
The Quiet Life: A Surprising Strategy
Paul adds an unexpected element to our understanding of leading a life that pleases God and spreading the gospel: leading a quiet life. In 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12, he advises believers to make it their ambition to lead a quiet life, mind their own business, and work with their hands. This approach may seem counterintuitive, but it is effective in winning the respect of outsiders and living a life that is not dependent on others.
The Offensiveness of the Gospel
The gospel is inherently offensive because it confronts us with our sinfulness and our need for a Savior. That’s why it’s critical we avoid adding unnecessary offense by tying our personal views to the gospel. Our role is to plant the seeds of the gospel and let the Holy Spirit transform hearts.
Examples of the Quiet Life
Paul and Stephen are examples of individuals who led quiet lives that had a profound impact. Paul worked hard to avoid being a burden while preaching the gospel, working as a tentmaker to earn a living. Stephen served quietly and faithfully, which eventually led to his bold proclamation of the gospel before the Sanhedrin. Even in martyrdom, Stephen's quiet life planted seeds that would later bear fruit in the life of Saul of Tarsus.
The Impact of a Quiet Life
Lance shared with us the example of Jerry, a quiet man from the church, who exemplified the power of a quiet life. Through simple acts of service and generosity, he impacted countless lives. His life was a testament to the principle that it's not what you gather but what you scatter for the sake of Christ that matters. Jerry's quiet life led his daughters and grandchildren to faith, demonstrating the far-reaching impact of living a life that pleases God. By living a faithful, quite life, Jerry established a gospel genealogy in his family that will be far reaching for many years to come.
Life Application
Challenge for the Week
This week, challenge yourself to focus on loving others and working diligently. Avoid adding unnecessary offense to the gospel and trust the Holy Spirit to transform hearts. Reflect on what a quite life would look like in your scenario.
Reflective Questions
1. How can you incorporate more acts of love and service into your daily routine? Think about your “One Life” - what’s an act of love you could do for them this week?
2. Are there areas in your life where you are trying to please God through your own efforts? How can you rely more on the Holy Spirit? Read Jesus’ words in Matthew 11:28-30.
3. What personal views might you be tying to the gospel that could be causing unnecessary offense?
4. How can you simplify your life to focus more on living quietly and pleasing God?
By reflecting on these questions and applying these principles, you can live a life that not only pleases God but also impacts those around you in profound ways.